The last thing I ever want to be accused of is nosiness for its own sake. Although I am frequently nosy, my nosiness is always based on a genuine caring about people and their lives, and a genuine curiosity about everything. I am not a busybody, and I do not gossip. Despite my insatiable curiosity about people, I strive to never ever make judgements – I’m a real “live and let live” kind of person. So, for example, if I was to find out that a friend of mine was cheating on her boyfriend*, I would urge her to do the honorable thing and just break up with him, but I would never spread the story along to someone else, because it’s none of my business as to what goes on in someone else’s relationship.